Hurricane Irene is now heading directly for our boat, which is our only home. She’s just north of Morehead City, North Carolina: http://www.nhc.noaa.gov/refresh/graphics_at4+shtml/152235.shtml?gm_track#contents
But we are three thousand miles away, on our way to Burning Man tomorrow. For the next 12 days, we’ll be incommunicado with 50,000 of our closest friends.
What should we do?
Not this: “When in trouble or in doubt, run in circles, scream and shout.”
Instead, this: Practice non-attachment.
Sure, we’ve done some preparation. We left the boat on the hard in one of the best boatyards in the country. We removed everything from the deck before we left. A good friend has secured the dinghy so it won’t fly or float away. Another has agreed to check on the boat once the storm passes.
There’s nothing more we can do, physically. All the work now is mental and emotional. The worst thing that can happen is not damage to our boat, but pain or injury to dear friends who live in the path of the storm.
It’s just a matter of perspective. I lost my brother this year. Losing a boat would be nothing compared to that. A mere scratch to my psyche.
So I wait to see what happens, and I send calming thoughts to my friends in the path of the storm. I head to Burning Man with the knowledge that an entire city can be built and removed in the space of a week.
Flutterby has been “totaled” in a hurricane before. She was built and rebuilt, and rebuilt, and rebuilt. She can be repaired and rebuilt again, and we have the skills to do so. I’d gladly rebuild her again if I could have my brother back. As I often say, “It’s only stuff.”
Hurricane Irene: Keep it in perspective. Stay safe. And keep breathing.
Anxiously waiting word re: Flutterby and also some posts about Burning Man.
Nice entry Margaret! Hope you won’t have to apply your admirable detachment to your boat stuff. I’m glad the wet hurricane won’t be extinguishing your burning.
This guy is broadcasting live from Morehead CIty: http://www.ustream.tv/channel/live-severe-weather-webcam
I understand what you mean about “it’s just stuff.” I lost a brother about 2 1/2 years ago, and the loss matters much more than stuff. I will send good energy and wishes for all the best for you, your friends and Flutterby.
loves & hugs to all 3 of you. I’m sure you’ll all be fine
wow… well said. Wishing you the best!
Looking for a Facebook button for: Good vibes for your boat, your friends, my friends and all the folks we don’t know too.
Sweetie, hoping not to worry about your boat….. sending positive sheltering vibes…